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1 year ago
the perfect soul mate?
you have to agree with me when i say, women spend a LOT of time working on their wishlist for the perfect man. the moment they’re handed a barbie and ken doll at the age of three, the list pretty much begins and never seems to stop growing. we wanna be barbie, and hot-DAMN we will find our KEN!
as the years move on, the notches on the bed post increase. and with that comes the increasing expectation of the next guy that comes along.
‘so my previous boyfriend was lousy in bed, the next one should be a sex-GOD.’ and if he’s not? ‘then f-it man!’ trust me, i’ve heard that from a lot of my girlfriends. ‘my other boyfriend couldn’t even afford to bring me to the clinic when i was sick, this one can!’
i say, what the bloody hell? finding a soul mate isn’t judging him based on what he has, or what’s in his package. its about finding someone you truly connect with. there IS no perfect guy for you ladies. there IS no perfect relationship.
sure, the first few months starts out with a bang. the fresh-ness, the passion, the butterflies in the stomach, but when that fades, what really matters at the end of the day is that you have someone you connect with and can hug away all your problems.
don’t expect someone to come along and sweep you off your feet. be realistic. that only happens in movies and story books. this is the real life people, and in the real life, there is no prince charming.
there’s one thing i do know from the real life though, the moment you stop searching…. you WILL find exactly what you’ve been searching for your whole life. or rather, it’ll find you.
……and when you fall, you fall hard, and you never recover……
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